Leadership Isn't Assigned -- It's Taken

“Being a leader isn't an assignment that is given to you, but an assignment that you TAKE.” Let that sink in. Leadership isn’t about waiting for permission. It’s about stepping up when others step back. In today's episode of the Managing A Career podcast, we’re diving deep into what it really means to TAKE leadership.

Anyone can be a leader—because leadership is a quality you demonstrate, not a job title you hold. Sure, some roles come with authority baked in, but real leaders don’t wait for the title. They lead because they choose to. If you have ambitions to advance in your career, this is the mindset that separates you from the crowd: you look for moments to lead, even when it’s not “your job.” You don’t ask, “Whose responsibility is this?”—you ask, “How can I help move this forward?”

Whether your job description includes the role of “leader” or not, leadership is about finding the gaps—and filling them. True leaders don’t wait to be assigned. They see what’s missing, what’s stalled, or what needs momentum, and they move it forward. Even when the work isn’t flashy, fun, or high-profile, they still show up. Sometimes, that means buckling down and doing the work yourself. Other times, it means stepping up to rally the right people around the task.

Let’s say your team’s project needs approval from another department, but no one’s reached out. A leader takes the initiative to start that conversation. Or maybe a recurring process is causing frustration across teams—someone who leads might pull together a quick working session to fix it. Even noticing that a new team member is struggling to get up to speed, and offering to show them the ropes, is leadership in action. It’s not about glory—it’s about ownership.

But what if you already have authority based on your position? In those cases, leadership isn’t about taking control—it’s about knowing when to step back and let your team take the lead. It’s about creating the space for others to stretch, experiment, and grow—while being ready to step in and coach when they need support. This kind of quiet leadership builds trust, resilience, and long-term capability within your team.

Maybe one of your team members is presenting to senior leadership for the first time. A great leader doesn’t take over—they prepare them, give them the floor, and offer backup only if it’s needed. Or consider a scenario where a project is headed off-course. Instead of immediately jumping in to “fix it,” a strong leader might guide their team through a post-mortem, letting them identify where things went wrong and how they’d course-correct next time. Even giving your high-performers the freedom to lead cross-functional initiatives without micromanagement sends a clear signal: I believe in you—and I’m here if you need me.

So, regardless of where you are in your career—what’s stopping you from being a leader? Are you waiting for permission? Leaders don’t wait. They lead because the work demands it. They step up, own the outcome, and do what it takes to drive it forward. Still hesitating? Ask yourself: what are you afraid of?

Is it failure? Everyone fails. The difference is whether you learn from it or let it define you. Worried about overstepping or getting in trouble? There’s truth in the old saying, “It’s better to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission.” And here’s the secret: you usually only need to apologize when it doesn’t work out. Most of the time, the people around you will be glad someone moved things forward.

And if it’s imposter syndrome that’s holding you back, go listen to Episode 083 (https://managingacareer.com/83). You’re in your role for a reason—someone believed in your ability to contribute and lead. Build on their belief until it becomes your own. Leadership starts with a decision, not a title.

Here’s what I want you to walk away with: leadership isn’t about the title—it’s about taking responsibility when others hesitate. It’s about solving problems that aren’t “yours,” lifting up your teammates, and being the steady hand when things get messy. Whether you’re brand new to the workforce or managing a team of 20, leadership is a mindset. If you’re waiting for someone to tap you on the shoulder and say, “Okay, now it’s your turn,” you’re already behind. The people who rise the fastest are the ones who start leading before anyone tells them to.

So how do you start? Here are four things you can do this week to start leading from wherever you are:

1. Own a Loose End: Look for a project, process, or task that’s stalled or falling through the cracks—and take the lead. Don’t wait for it to be handed to you.
2. Support a Teammate Quietly: See someone struggling? Offer to walk them through something or share a resource. Leadership is often invisible.
3. Speak Up with a Solution: At your next meeting, come prepared with a thoughtful suggestion. Don’t just point out problems—offer a way forward.
4. Ask for Feedback Like a Leader: Proactively ask your manager or a peer what one thing you could do to be more effective—and then act on it.

These aren’t grand gestures. They’re repeatable habits that signal to others—and to yourself—that you’re someone who takes initiative. And that’s the foundation of real leadership.

If this episode hit home for you—if you're rethinking what it means to be a leader—then it's time to act. Don’t just nod along. Choose one thing from today’s episode and do it. Leadership isn’t theoretical. It’s practical. It’s visible. And most importantly, it’s yours to claim. If this message resonated, share the Managing A Career podcast with someone else who’s ready to step up. Screenshot the episode, post it on LinkedIn, and tag me. Let’s build a workplace full of people who lead—not because they were told to, but because they decided to.

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